Good news is that I finished my first year of my degree program with relative success. A design degree is practice in patience, a balance between constructive and non constructive self criticism and determination to not cry and to just finish a project without a complete meltdown. I am exaggerating (sort of) but I think a new challenge in life can help you learn a lot about yourself. This degree program has been a journey of self discovery; sometimes beautiful, sometimes hideous. I can’t complain though. I have a good support system here. It’s called the English pub. You can sit in a pub by yourself and drink a pint and stare off into the distance with a vapid look. The combination of complete lack of sleep and the let down from a particularly stressful project always make for a good time to go to the pub. It’s always a good place to stare to nowhere and contemplate how much thought can go into paving slabs and concrete mix ratios (for a landscape architecture student anyway). No one will bother you at the pub. The bartender rarely makes small talk, the three old guys scattered across the bar are usually drunk and have been taking up their place at the same stool for twenty years and are disinterested in general in life but especially anyone new at the same bar. People go about their business in an English pub. It’s just home away from home. No one's trying to make lifelong friends. There are no expectations. It’s a beautiful thing.
The central walking path at Writtle, lined with birch trees.
Aside from pubs, I have ventured out to do some touristy things. In fact I get overexcited a lot at the prospect of places to be visited- museums to be viewed, art shows, music shows, festivals, sporting events, BBQ's and the like. I thought I was going to explode when the world cup came around. I was beyond excited over the U.S. team and I could not wait to be the ultimate patriot and make it clear to people that I was in fact cheering for the U.S. and no; I don’t think the England team is all that great. In fact, I think they stunk it up pretty bad. Yes, David Beckham is amazingly handsome but Wayne Rooney is equally shrek-ish so they zero each other out.
It was great to see a meltdown of such great proportions for the English football team while in England. People were genuinely distraught and to be perfectly honest I did receive satisfaction in that. The distress was even high when we tied the England v.US game, which was confusing because they didn't lose. Shouldn't we all be happy?! I'm still not sure if it's passion, latent anger or just general repression that makes football so insane here. I'm leaning toward repression. I doubt anyone of those football fans are nearly as animated at weddings or births or some equally jubilant life occasion. Just football. That's the only acceptable time to cry, punch, shout, sing and embrace another human being.
It’s also become quite normal for me to call it football without pausing or jumbling between soccer and football, socfoob, socc, footsocc, football. I had to resign to using this because of the contempt surrounding using the word soccer, as if it was a supreme insult. Footie, affectionately named, is the one and true sport here and there is no tolerance for other names or countries interpretations, especially America.

dejected english fans. ha. (guardian.co.uk)
Back to my updates. If you didn’t already know, Jamey is working for ESPN America over here in their London office. ESPN America is basically American sports for about 3 Europeans that absolutely love the NBA finals or for some inexplicable reason, Lacrosse. I wouldn’t say its Europe’s most watched sports channel but people subscribe from all around the world. He is enjoying his time working in London. Disney owns ESPN so he works in the Disney building in west London.
There are a lot of perks; free movies, nonstop Disney themed elevator music, Disney schwag, Iron Man’s costume in the lobby. It’s all good. And the best of all- tickets to sporting events. We have had tickets to both Wimbledon and the British Open at St. Andrews. We take every possible opportunity to go to sporting events, even cricket, where I have absolutely NO IDEA what is going on… the entire time. It’s sort of the feel of a baseball game, that slow intermittent action punctuated by beer drinking and gabbing to friends around you. The biggest difference is that the players don’t seem to do much other than stand around in the grassy field which they use only about 1 square foot of and then occasionally some cheerleaders make their way dancing around the outer perimeter of the field. They don’t appear to be cheerleaders for one side or the other. They just cheer no matter whose wicket goes where. It’s unbiased and random and pretty awful to watch. The fans are always nice and try to explain bits and pieces to us but they might as well be speaking a foreign language. I just nod my head and occasionally give some sort of recognizable nod of understanding.
While sports seem to be a big part of our lives these days we do spend time checking in with family and friends back home. In late May, my father had a surgical procedure for an aneurysm in his chest and Jamey and I were fortunate enough to get to Raleigh to support him through that tough surgery. He is recovering nicely and is back to his stubborn old ways. Thanks for all the well wishes from friends and family during that time. A special shout out to Cousin Jimmy who came all the way from New Jersey to see that Uncle Don was comfortable and happy. Thanks for cleaning my parent’s fridge too, you’re the best.
We are also on a mission to bring our beloved Alfie over the pond. At the start of this Euro adventure we had saved money and done all of the appropriate vet tests and prepping to get Alfie here but as life happens, nothing has gone as planned and we have had to delay his arrival in the UK. We are now in the position of raising money to fund his trip over here. Meanwhile he is keeping Jamey’s parents, Susan and Steve, company in Arkansas. In a true grass roots effort, we are offering up baked goods (well Kate is) to those who with a sweet tooth in exchange all proceeds go to what we affectionately call our mission ‘Operation Alfie Drop’. You may have already become a member online on Facebook, and if so we thank you for your support. We’re not entirely sure if this is going to work but we’re giving it a try and our love for Alfie keeps us going to make sure we are successful. We are asking friends stateside to save extra coins and pennies in a jar and let us know how much you get by October. At that moment you can decide if you want to go coinstar and send the monies to our banker in Raleigh aka Rosemary and Don- Stateside Reps for Operation Alfie Drop or if you want to buy new socks for yourself or some other splurge. The decision is entirely yours. Meanwhile, Alfie will be waiting for us to make this happen and we can be reunited as a happy family!!














